![]() I limit my friends on Fetlife mainly because I do not want my friends feed full of junk and drama.Īs a matter of fact I am going to clean house later today on my friends list.įetlife is really an awesome social site, you have millions of people, many who share the same fetishes with you, the same kinks and maybe the same interest when it comes to submission. There are some days I just sit and shake my head. There is a ton of good information here more than you can get from any book on the market. I always give new Dominant who are interested in the lifestyle a place to go for good information. If your training consist of sucking cock or being on your back, getting punished all the time just for the fuck of it, then I would sit back and rethink things out. ![]() There are however circumstances which would not allow one to relocate, that being a career one makes more money than he other, but if two want a relationship bad enough and you feel you have enough in common someone is going to make that move… In my eye Distance has nothing to do with anything, if your willing to invest the time needed to build a relationship, then distance is not even an issue…. I was going through some groups in fetlife, where subs were looking for Dominants, and most of what I read from other Doms was, Man I wish you were closer. I am not sure about everyone else but my time is very valuable. The above goes for male and female, Dominant, Master, Domme, Submissive Slave, Baby Girl, Primal, what ever you label yourself. ![]() Ive said it many times, life is based on two actions and two actions only, those would be choices and consequences. There are two sides to every story, you have to pick the book you want to read. The Dominant who tell you, you are stupid, your nothing without him… The Dominant who uses fear and humiliation to keep you in check…. The Dominant who cannot keep his temper under control. The Dominant who promises to fix what ever is wrong but really has no intentions of doing anything. Then you have the poor me Dominant, the wish I was a better Dom. You end up sitting all alone waiting on a text or an email, crying wondering what you did wrong… Then you have the other Dominant, the fuck with your head, trying to get over on you, bull shitting his way through a relationship that is never going to happen. If your not in it for the long haul why would you want to try and put all the steps above into place when you have zero intentions of following through? In the end that is way to much work and time to invest just to get some head. So if your in it just for the pussy, or you want your dick sucked just ask. You have a submissive who craves to be trained, loved and cared for. Submission not only runs on different levels, but it runs deep, and each one is different, each has different needs, but in the end the outcome is the same. You get the clingy part, you get the needy, and in most cases you get the bad word codependent part, not always but this is true in most cases. ![]() Now here is the thing, all of the above comes with a huge price tag, the above comes with huge responsibility, and then you have the saying be careful what you ask for, because once you start to unlock all of those door as you open each door the price tag becomes larger. It is about the control, the ability to control ones actions and thoughts, now that is deep. Training one to drop to their knees on command, or to spread on command, with either a voice command or a simple hand gesture. Sitting back and looking at the progress, changing someone for the better, changing someones thought process, changing habits, training. I want to stand alone, I want to be different, I wanted to be someone my slave had never experienced. In my relationship I do not want a quarter of the pie, I don’t want half or even three quarters, I want the pie and the ice cream, because if you are getting less that the whole pie you are not getting the full experience. In my home I am the President, Governor, Mayor, Judge and Jury. ![]()
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